Why are women so complicated and what do they really want

6 Tips to help you understand women.

Why are women complicated

Men find women to be complicated creatures and they find it even harder to understand exactly what do women what. Well, men the fact of the matter is, women are complicated and for the most part they have too many things that they want, which makes it impossible for them to just really talk about or focus on one.

Women are multifaceted creatures, they tend to see details rather than big pictures, they appreciate the smallest gestures, and they are passionate when it comes to the way they love another. Women are complicated only because they are constantly growing and changing in the way they look at life.

A woman’s life is almost never the same, meaning that it takes another shape or form every single day. Women love to look at life through various lenses in order to find the one that suits them best. Men aren’t considered complicated because they tend to look at the bigger picture and not care for the details. Take for instance buying cars. Men and women are very different women will be focusing on the details of the car like the interior, the color. She will already have an idea of what she will wear that will match her car when she’s driving. Well guys are typically not that crazy. Guys will worry about horsepower, torque, how fast the car can go from 0-60.


They follow the same rituals and routines throughout their daily lives and would rather not deal with change. Most men for the most part can only do one thing at a time, whereas women can multitask. Their minds are constantly going and sometimes they do get a bit carried away, which makes them come across as if their insane, but they aren’t, men just can’t really keep up.

If a woman finds something that works for them, then they stick to it. Most women look for a change because it brings that excitement into their life that they long for. They long to be happy and are in constant search of this happiness. Woman nag, love, cry, create drama, love some more, all for the sake of finding happiness, and all they need is for men to understand them!!

Women are so complicated or appear to be complicated because they are not understood. Men won’t take the time to figure out why their women are difficult. Here are some keys to understand woman and you’ll quickly noticed that they are not that complicated.  Most of the time women will tell you exactly what they want however you must be willing to listen to what she’s saying. She’s not going to come out right and tell you baby I need this, it think if you do this I will be so happy. They will give you little hints here and there and it’s your duty to patch them in.  If she keeps making reference to something over and over and over that means she’s interested and she wants you to make it happen.  For instance, she keeps talking about this new restaurant in town that everyone has been talking about about she’s basically telling you it’s time for you to take her there.

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6 tips that will help you know and understand how to deal with your woman so that you don’t think they are all complicated.

These tips will help you with women that you can see face to face and it will also in meeting women online


Tip one:  you must first understand how women communicate

You must understand how women communicate because that will help you keep your sanity and also help you deal and get along with her better.  Women don’t need a particular reason to talk, she will talk about whatever whenever.  Women like to talk out loud because sometimes it helps them connecting what they are thinking and what they are saying. Your job is to be a good listener and that will help you understand what she wants you to know and do.

Women are very detail oriented they will tell you a story before they get to the point so that they can assure that you are getting the complete idea behind what they are saying.

Women hate when men try to avoid conversation by giving the answer they think women are looking for.

Tip two: give her the attention she needs

Women need to feel that they have your attention, when they are around, don’t just sit there play video games, or what stuff that they are not interested. Make sure if they are around you they are watching what you are watching or they are doing something else, because women hate feeling neglected.

They want the same attention you gave them when you were trying to get with them. Always want to talk, text, see each other. However, note that too much attention is not good because she needs time to breathe, too much attention screams out obsession and women don’t like that.

Tip three: compliment her and make her feel appreciated.

Women like compliments because that helps them to know and ensures them that you are still attracted to them. When she does something, like cook, clean, get your stuff ready, you have to compliment her if not she will feel that her efforts wasn’t appreciated and may not want to do it again.

Here are some things to say to a woman:

Babe this dress looks very nice on you.

You are the best thing that has ever happened to me

You do this so well. I love it when you do this

You are the smartest girl I have ever known

Nice hair due, nice haircut.

A few things to make her feel appreciated:

When you come home give her a hug and kiss and take in interest on how her day was

If you are not living together, call her or text her asking of how her day was.

Hold her hand when you are in public

Kiss her on the forehead for no apparent reason

Introduce her as your prize possession to everyone you know and meet when you are with her.

Use these tips  in meeting women online.


Tip four:  know your woman, know her likes, dislikes, what makes her comfortable or what she’s not comfortable with.

We all have things that we like and dislike and women are sometimes very particular about what they like. Knowing exactly what they like and don’t like will help you. Know that not all women like flowers, find something else that she likes to replace that.

Don’t reproach her something happen try to be as understanding as possible.

Tip five: know that she’s always expecting you to make the first move, be spontaneous, and also show that you on her side.

Women want a man that will take charge of planning outings, secret dates. Don’t always let her to be the one that initiate something, sometimes take control and relieve her from being the one to initiate. Call her some times and just tell her to get ready and don’t tell her where you are going and keep it a surprise.

Never, never take someone else’s side over your girls, although she may be wrong but don’t take sides rather tried to calm the situation before taking anyone’s side.


Tip six:  know that you’ll never get her or understand completely what she wants because her wants will change based on her emotions, feelings, and environment.

Last but not least know that you’ll never fully understand what she wants and how you will be able to get it or make it happen. Just keep paying attention to her because as mentioned her wants will be dictated by her environment. If she’s not comfortable we may not want something. If she’s not feeling good she may not want what you would normally get her or do for her.

There are more to say about this subject however following these 6 Steps will help you.

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  1. JayJay ,the problem is that women don’t want to meet half way,they expect men to read their minds and do everything,ask them out, compliment them,pay attention to them,etc.. and when we do they that they reject us! Men are straightforward when we find women attractive;we let you know right away, where as women tend to hide it and make us sweat for awhile until they finally reveal they feel the same way!

  2. I just dont know…

    I was with my girl for 11 years.Things were great!
    Never fought, did everything fun, No kids, no money problems, no cheating, etc etc..
    One day, out of the blue, I got a text saying, “I think we should part ways”
    A month later , my head is still spinning!!
    I dont know what happened ,and she said she cant explain it but she loves me, but, not IN love with me!
    I cant figure women out….
    I miss her terribly!

    • Hey Mike this is a very hard thing to have to deal with. I have been with my now wife for almost 15 years and if I get something like that I would go crazy as well. A few things usually happen in relationships like this, people may get complacent, things because routine, people not doing what they are supposed to do just because they think it’s a safe zone. We can never figure out women. If someone if not in love with you, it’s hard for them to be in a relationship with you because they may end up hating you. Have you ever talked to her to find out exactly what the problem is? Is it because she found someone else, maybe she feels as if she’s missing something in the relationship? You need to find these things out. If she really loves you she owe you this much to tell you what the problem is.

  3. women are definitely very complicated today, and with so many women nowadays that have such a very bad attitude problem, it is much more difficult meeting a good one now. trying to start a normal conversation with them is worse, and they will just walk away. there are just too many low life loser women now than ever before, and since more and more women are into other women these days that will certainly add to the problem.

  4. Thank you for stopping by JayJay, I do understand where you are coming from it has to be a two way street where both men and women split the workload. As man we have to understand our women for the most part women usually gets men because most men want just about the same thing. NOt all but most. Again thank you for stopping by. Please share this site with your friends.

  5. Ok seriously your all talking shit awrite – dumb asses. Now first of all you annoying ladies with your one minded comments!!

    This world is only about understanding the women – christ sake! i disagree it should be both ways. The man shuld understand the woman and vice versa…gosh we wont get anywhere in society if we dont meet half way.

    Us men yes get your shit sorted and take time to endulge in your mrs – do whatever it takes kos shes a special woman, if your not then you dont deserve her. You ladies do the same kos ryt now its all about the men having to change and do all the work. Theres sum shit we dont actuali know ok! dont bloody assume. the fact women are slightly more complicated makes it a tad harder for us to understand you guys.

    Dont blame us for it thats how we are wired, since the dawn of time. so instead of complaining about how one of us sexes is boring/lazy/simple minded and the other complicated….work the differences out you muppets – sick of all this BS. Have a nice day : )

  6. so many women nowadays are so very CONFUSING. they are very hard to COMMUNICATE with, and have such an ATTITUDE PROBLEM as well. no wonder why meeting a GOOD WOMAN today is very hard now.

    • Yes, Franko, but I don’t fully blame them because some times they act they way they act because of what they have been through or men they have been with. Some of them do have attitude problems.

  7. I enjoyed reading this! Women can truly be confusing and sometimes a guy can never win! Speaking of which, I’m a bit embarrassed about this, but cut me a little slack, this happened 20+ years ago, and I was an emotional, young college girl at the time (an English Lit/Drama major no less). I had been romantically involved with this guy for about six months and it seemed to me that we just couldn’t take things to the next level and it would be in both of our interests to move on. So one day, I decided to have a heart to heart chat with him, going to great lengths to be sensitive to his feelings, and getting a little emotional in the process of saying it was time to end things. His response? Well, very casual, dry (he was an engineering major, go figure;) and hmmm, maybe even a little cheerful. He said with a smile, “yeah, you’re right, it’s probably the best thing.” Well, I was stunned by his lack of disappointment and asked if that was all he had to say. He again replied casually, “yeah, I think that’s about it.” I had invested the past six months of my life with this guy and he didnt seem to be the least bit upset that I was breaking up with him?! What a blow to my self-esteem and it was more than I could take. I stood up from the bench we were sitting on in the heart of the campus quad, and then SMACK! – he got a hearty slap, right across the face and then I stormed off, a complete, emotional wreck. Later on, I talked about it with a few of my sorority sisters and of course got hugged, consoled, etc. Then one of my sisters said something like “so wait a minute….you broke up with him and then slapped him?”. It then occurred to me how ridiculous the scenario was! The story doesn’t end there. A few days later, he sent me flowers and an apology card. I’m not sure if the poor guy even knew what he was apologizing for! My heart goes out to the all the men out there. Sometimes we women can be complicated beyond belief, lol.

  8. Really they arent that hard to understand, its when they dont tell you all of what they mean, then it all goes to hell. I cant figure the girl I love out right now and its a really big problem we arent in a relationship but she doesent want to go out with me because Im “The guy you end up with” and I dont understand, I think its stupid to just wait untill youve had your heart brocken and gone throught hardships, when the guy who loves you, who would die to keep you safe is waiting for you right there.

  9. Millions of years of evolution with men being in charge and telling women what they can do is the reason. Now women have the freedom to make their own choices they are not equipped by evolution to do so. Women prefer men who can make decision so man has evolved by natural selection to be decisive. Women did not evolve in the same manner as men did not need women to be decisive. I have 3 sisters and they drive me insane cause they can never make up their minds.

  10. This post is just feminist bullshit. The amount of excuses made, and the fact that it answers zero questions makes it very obvious that a woman wrote it…

  11. I rather feel women arenot that interesting as they pretend to be.they always crave for other womens things be it a boyfriend or anything,eventhough they may have the best.they fail in many ways. i have never seen a good doctor with skills like a surgeon in a women.they may talk many things but the fact of the matter is that they cant compete with men…
    they sound monotonous if you observe them clearly.my wife always cleans the house on thursdays every week and her mother also does the same.does it sound interesting..they are copy softwares

  12. “If a woman finds something that works for them, then they stick to it. Most women look for a change because it brings that excitement into their life that they long for.” You mean: If a man*?

    Sheesh.. bloggers nowadays are paying less and less attention to crap they write and pull out of their asses.. This entire blog is just a tangent that this lady is suddenly feeling… you can tell by the way she generalized men so much

    Get a real life please.

  13. I love women. It all started with my mother, and having two older sisters only compounded that feeling. However, it was really rough being the only son with an absentee father. I got blamed for everything that went wrong! I received three doses of fragile female frustraion at the end of every single day! Despite all of that, I grew up as a boy toy and now am a ladies man in my early thirties. Sure, I was considered a knockout, but what really took the cake was my attitude. Being well rounded on the insanity of all the Italian women in my life must’ve rubbed off greatly on me. I learned to listen and wait for my cue to respond with great insight. Not easy, because most women are gabbers!!! I never get that annoyed with women because I can tune them out while their record keeps skipping!!! However, I have only had a handful of meaningful relationships in my entire life because I like sex; especially NEW SEX with NEW WOMEN. The more I unintentionally ignored women, the more they wanted IT; especially after they got it GOOD. MEN CAN’T KEEP UP WITH WOMEN??? I never tried to keep up!!! I always led on the open road and never looked back while they got bitter trying to keep up. I’ll probably be single for the rest of my life because I like my own “peace of mind” and find it really hard to stay interested in NEEDY WOMEN who are insecure.

  14. Women are great just tell them what they want to here and treat them like they are speciail i have loads of girlfriends that idolise me this way i hope they all never meet each other .Buy them jewellery , dresses whatever they want always sound genuine and sincere works for me every time and hugh heiffer as well get into there head and soul.Oldest trick in the book or just but hookers if not willing probably cheaper.

  15. Why are women so complicated and what do they really want?

    I don’t think that women are complicated, I think they are just really made to piss men off… No I’m just kidding.. I think women are actually very simple to understand depending on your life stile, you will find a different kind of women. There are women they that would do anything for money, and there are women that don’t care if you are rich. The best advise that I can give to those people that think that women are complicated be your self and if she stays it mean she appreciate you for who you are, and not for somebody you’re not, and if she does not stay good, if not there are so many fish in the sea. So women have only the power to make us think that they are complicated, but in the end they are just like us men…

  16. The truth is women don’t know what they want. They are always changing their minds about everything. Even when things are just the way they want it, they still keep changing their minds. It still amazes me how most women don’t come to their senses until their 30.
    98% of women are just complete emotionless, stuck-up, selfish mongers. That other 2% is the REAL women. Nowadays, women either want a guy who rich or hot, & if your neither then your gonna be leaved behind.

    I hate women

  17. Girls grow up on idealized romance and this is what happens. They want “Mr. Perfect” and they reason they don’t know what they want is because “Mr. Perfect” doesn’t exist. Men, on the other hand, don’t have such high standards because “Mrs. Perfect” is almost always married to “Mr. Rich”. Thus, while men are satisfied with the relationship they are in, women still look for something else because they don’t have “Mr. Perfect”…and this is why breakups happen. On the other hand, if men and women don’t get along and our world population is 6.6 billion, what would it be like if they DID get along? o__o

  18. i think that women know what they want, they just dont know how to reach the point in which they get what they want… what i want to know is why do women get pissed off when thier boyfriend gets jealous that they spend time with another guy??? Honestly i think its stupid…..

  19. It’s not that we don’t appreciate it because it might just be the opposite. We just want to experience other things that may interest us. For someone to be interested in something they had to have been exposed to it before and in certain cases it can be from the influence of something a friend has. Let’s say that you did find something that interest you, would you be more inclined to do it after witnessing it from a friend or seeing the exact same thing from a complete stranger?

  20. so you guys have decided to use my government name… please refrain from using my government name. that aside i may be a typical guy, but whats a typical woman someone that can’t make up their mind. does she want apple or oranges or maybe a banana. i have no problem with change but changing all the time is the problem. women for the most part are unstable… in my opinion….

  21. ok drg1 you make a point….but its normal for a woman to look at other relationships and make the comparison to theirs, and your right she wouldn’t know if its good for her until she tries but most women would be willing to take that chance.

  22. Hey leave Max alone. Women don’t know what they because they honestly don’t know really what it is that they are looking for. Most of the time they think they want something simply because that’s what their friend want they assumed it would be good for them. I don’t mind my girl want to try something new, changing the environment from time to time. I just want it to be based on what she wants not what her friend has. You may be running aftware what you friend have and once you get it, it may not suit as well as it suits your friend. So, big women don’t know what they want most the time because they don’t appreciate what they have or for the most part don’t know how to appreciate it. Max as a point though if it’s good don’t change it but max having the same routine get’s old real quick sir.

  23. you see my point exactly, you don’t understand, women don’t want things to just leave things the way they are, they want it to get better. In relationships guys tend to get lazy and stop doing the things they used to do when they wanted to get with their chick. Most girls love it when their men can remind them why is it they fell in love with them in the first place.

  24. thats not true at all. we’re not mad at all that we can’t keep up. why should life have to be constantly changing? if things are good and happy the way they are then leave well enough alone.

  25. lmao, oh so not true, women do know what they want at the moment they want it, their constantly changing, and frankly men are mad because they can’t keep up!

  26. Why are women so complicated and what do they really want? It’s called PMS people!!! lol just kidding. i actually don’t know my self. its one of those thing that only GOD can answer. i don’t think women will ever be truly satisfied with anything. for the simple fact that the are always looking for a new form of excitement. give me a ball a string and i’m good for a month. give the same thing to a woman and she wants to know where the rest of it is. i don’t mean to sound sexist in anyway but its kinda true. if you disagree let me know…

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