Sex as a weapon, definitely one of the things we need to talk about. Sex is a a very common aspect of most relationships. It is the aspect of the relationship that most find to be the most enjoyable and one that can really bring a couple closer together. Yet, it is also the aspect of a relationship that can equally tear a couple apart. You see, in a relationship this specific activity has to be agreed upon by both parties, both people willingly agree to engage themselves in having sex. Yet, what we find sometimes is that one party may not necessarily be up to having sex for one reason or another.
Well today, the focus is on the ladies. Women tend to use sex as a way to coerce their men into getting their way. If they want something to happen then they know that this would be the perfect opportunity to get their man to do it. They figure that if the guy wants it bad enough then he will do exactly what it is she wants, so she uses sex as a tool to get her way. Is it right for a woman to use her body or sexuality rather as a means to get her way?
Another example on the way women tend to use their sexuality as a weapon is when they are upset. When a woman is angry, her sexual drive tends to find it’s way out the door, which bascially means that the guy isn’t getting any. This is as real as it gets. Is it right for a married woman that is supposed to be one with her husband, keep herself away from him in that sense?
It’s amazing the way that guys can go all googoo gaga over women and not even realize the traps that they are being led into. So both ladies and gents what do you think, should sex be used a weapon in any shape or form in a relationship. If no, then why? And if yes, then why and when should it be used?
Don’t be afraid to speak your mind, this is what it’s about!
so true thats why most guys say “we shouldn’t go to bed angry” which is true but their motive for saying that isn’t
lmao…oh i’m sure…u see i don’t know why men think that if they’ve just gotten into a heated discussion with their girl then all should be forgotten by the time it time to go to bed…crazy!
negative, not happening him and the cold shower will become one….then again they say make up sex is the best sex.
lol…ok so you make a good point. How about if you and your husband had an argument but he still wants to have sex with u that night, then what?
no a woman shouldn’t use sex as a weapon, anyways its a sin to deprive ur husband or wife from sex. unless one of you guys are tired or not in the mood. But that shouldn’t be your excuse every night. Anyways, sex isn’t the only way to get what you want from your husband.
Here’s the verse to support my reason:
The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Stop depriving one another (of sex).”
1 Corinthians 7:3-5
I think using sex to get things, or as punishment is lying. Or maybe I just enjoy it too much to use it for anything other than its intended purpose…to express love and for fun.
I’m not saying you shouldn’t tease, but teasing should not include manipulation, it should be fun and sexy. Constantly abusing a relationship with negative sexual manipulation will eventually lead to its demise.
Just my thoughts…