If I were to take a poll today, i’m preety sure that there would be more people inclined to say that yes, it’s ok for them to have sex with someone before getting married to them. Very few would probably feel otherwise, meaning that people should wait until they are married to have sex with their partner. The society we live in, has made it seem that sex is no longer an important matter in a relationship. For some, there really isn’t a relationship if sex isn’t included. Our society, has portrayed sex to be just an ordinary necessesity that people just can’t live without, kind of like water, and if your not having it or rather doing it, then there has to be something wrong with you.
Marriage, though is still something that is considered to be very sacred and most people still take it very seriously. Most people will tell you, that they will not marry someone unless they are certain that they love and want to spend the rest of their life with them. Yet, they don’t feel the same way about having sex. Sex, is something that should also be considered sacred and should be shared with someone that you are certain will spend the rest of their life with you, at least for the most part. Why do I say this, well because when you do in fact give in to having sex with someone before, what else is left to be discovered in your relationship except for maybe a couple of bad habits here and there. Additionally, this could make your partner wonder about, if you gave it up this easily to them, then how many others have you given it up to. And please don’t tell me that this doesn’t matter, because even if they say it doesn’t, it really does.
More importantly, God said that only married people should find themselves involved in such acts, and I’m certain he said it for a reason. Sex, isn’t something that should be taken lightly especially considering the times in which we are living. If you end up having sex, without using protection, you can not only contract a sexually transmitted disease, but ladies you can also get pregnant. There are so many different aspects that a person has to consider before hitting the sack with someone, which makes me wonder isn’t it better to just wait until your married and in what should be a secure relationship.