Boys admit it. You are clueless of what you want for a lifetime partner. Sarcastically you depend on senseless opinions for advice. Obviously most guys are clueless of love, courtship and marriage. Unfortunately there is no known formula on how to find the right girl for you. One can only refer to suggestions but it is not always successful.
Doing little things. If you have been dating someone for quite some time already and you want to make him or her feel special, then you should do little things for your date. Giving her a flower from time to time or treating him for a snack would go a long way, as far as cultivating your relationship is concerned.