Breaking up is never easy, and getting over someone is the hardest part of it all, especially when you invested so much of yourself into the relationship. This is usually hardest for those that did in fact fall in love but fell out of it at some point in their relationship. Despite how much someone wants to contest it takes a lot of energy to be in a relationship and even more energy sometimes to get over one.

Getting over someone that is obviously getting over you is very important. It’s important that a person learns to move on with their lives in the fastest way possible so that you don’t become depressed or sad or think about the situation that you have found yourself in. Here are some key things to do in order to get over your ex and move forward with your life.

Once you have found that you are back to being single,it’s important that you put away all the things that reminds you of when you were in your relationship, especially pictures. Next you should start making a list of all the things that you wish you had more time for, but maybe couldn’t find the time for while you were in your relationship. If you haven’t been working out, trust this would be the best time to start. Make a list of every single thing you’ve ever wanted to do, and choose one of them that you will do within the next week or few weeks, depending on what it is and the time frame required for it.

Many people tend to fall into a trap of getting out of one relationship and suddenly start another. Big mistake! It’s important that during this time, you go back and revisit some things that probably caused your relationship to fail, and who was at fault. Now I did say to put away all things that remind you of your relationship, which still remains true, but this part has to do more so with you and your feelings. This particularly will help you heal and perhaps help you in your future relationships.

Also, let’s not forget to go out and enjoy ourselves during this time, meet new people, mingle, have lots of fun and remember that there is that right person for you.

Don’t be afraid of what tomorrow may bring, but rather live for today. Yesterday’s troubles are exactly what they are yesterday’s troubles, so don’t let them keep you down.

xoxo

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Ok for those of you who missed American Idol last night, here’s a recap of the events that happened. Lil Rounds, is not doing as well as the judges thought that she would be doing, she seems to lack originality,  Simon Cowell told her  ”I have no idea who you are.” If Lil Rounds, 24 year old Memphis mom she may very well be the next to go. Something happened last night that was very much out of the ordinary, Simon Cowell gave someone a standing ovation.  Adam Lambert, received a standing ovation for his rendition of “Mad World” by Tears for Fears. Other people that recieved high praises were Danny Glokey ( a fav of mine), Anoop Desai also recieved some praises. Kris Allan that usually gets good reviews, didn’t do so hot according to Simon Cowell, Cowell used words such as “indulgent, boring, forgettable.” The 16 year old, Iraheta, also did a good job according to judge Randy Jackson, compared her to Kelly Clarkson and said she could sing her face off just like Kelly Clarkson. Tonight is the result show, and who knows if America get’s it wrong according to the judges, they may use their save.

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Breaking up is never easy, and getting over someone is the hardest part of it all, especially when you invested so much of yourself into the relationship. This is usually hardest for those that did in fact fall in love but fell out of it at some point in their relationship. Despite how much someone wants to contest it takes a lot of energy to be in a relationship and even more energy sometimes to get over one. 

Getting over someone that is obviously getting over you is very important. It’s important that a person learns to move on with their lives in the fastest way possible so that you don’t become depressed or sad or think about the situation that you have found yourself in. Here are some key things to do in order to get over your ex and move forward with your life. 

Once you have found that you are back to being single,it’s important that you put away all the things that reminds you of when you were in your relationship, especially pictures. Next you should start making a list of all the things that you wish you had more time for, but maybe couldn’t find the time for while you were in your relationship. If you haven’t been working out, trust this would be the best time to start. Make a list of every single thing you’ve ever wanted to do, and choose one of them that you will do within the next week or few weeks, depending on what it is and the time frame required for it. 

Many people tend to fall into a trap of getting out of one relationship and suddenly start another. Big mistake! It’s important that during this time, you go back and revisit some things that probably caused your relationship to fail, and who was at fault. Now I did say to put away all things that remind you of your relationship, which still remains true, but this part has to do more so with you and your feelings. This particularly will help you heal and perhaps help you in your future relationships. 

Also, let’s not forget to go out and enjoy ourselves during this time, meet new people, mingle, have lots of fun and remember that there is that right person for you. 

Don’t be afraid of what tomorrow may bring, but rather live for today. Yesterday’s troubles are exactly what they are yesterday’s troubles, so don’t let them keep you down. 

xoxo

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Ok…first let me apologize for taking long to write this for those of you that missed the show but i’m still recovering from the results. Let me just catch my breath.  Ok, Shawn Johnson, Lil Kim, and my favorite Gilles were announced safe early on in the show. And then something so unexpected happen, Steve-O was considered safe. Steve-O the one that continues to receive low scores and have had more injuries than one can count is still in the game. Now you understand why I was shocked. I guess he really does have some hard core fans out there supporting him, because it can’t be his dancing that’s carrying him through in this competition. Melissa Rycroft, Chuck and Ty were also left off the hook. The dance off was between football player, Lawrence Taylor and David (the comedian). Although David did have a higher score than Lawrence in last night’s performance, it didn’t give him any advantage, and unfortunately after his performance, he was sent packing. Poor David. I actually thought he would have gotten much further since he did do a pretty decent job throughout the competitions. This is just to show that you can stink in dancing, but if you have faithful fans then you can really win in these competitions. I guess we have to wait and see what next week will bring in this competition.

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Ok for those of you who missed American Idol last night, here’s a recap of the events that happened. Lil Rounds, is not doing as well as the judges thought that she would be doing, she seems to lack originality,  Simon Cowell told her  ”I have no idea who you are.” If Lil Rounds, 24 year old Memphis mom she may very well be the next to go. Something happened last night that was very much out of the ordinary, Simon Cowell gave someone a standing ovation.  Adam Lambert, received astanding ovation for his rendition of “Mad World” by Tears for Fears. Other people that recieved high praises were Danny Glokey ( a fav of mine), Anoop Desai also recieved some praises. Kris Allan that usually gets good reviews, didn’t do so hot according to Simon Cowell, Cowell used words such as “indulgent, boring, forgettable.” The 16 year old, Iraheta, also did a good job according to judge Randy Jackson, compared her to Kelly Clarkson and said she could sing her face off just like Kelly Clarkson. Tonight is the result show, and who knows if America get’s it wrong according to the judges, they may use their save.

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What do girls look for in a guy truly depends on each girl. Taste is something that truly cannot be explained, it varies from person to person and can change without one even realizing it. Most girls tend to look at an array of things when on the quest of finding the right one for them.

Some girls are attracted to guys solely based on their looks. They need to find a guy that’s attractive and what we call eye candy. He has to have a certain height, dress a certain way, and have that body to go along with it. No bird chests for these type of girls.

Some girls may be attracted to a guy based on his personality. They may love the way he speaks, they may fall for his smile, his approach towards them. They may fall for his charm. Some girls tend to actually look for a guy that possess a great quality prior to looking at the way he may look. If he is a looker and he has a great personality than that would be consider a plus.

Some girls are looking for the players. Hard to believe, but it is true. Some girls can’t help but be attracted to guys that will end up cheating on them or give them constant grief. Why? Only those type of girls can really explain.

Other girls looks for the guy that doesn’t like to say much, not that he has a lack of personality but maybe he’s more shy or reserved. He’s the more laid back type that takes his time to make his move. Some girls believe it or not are attracted to the guys that isn’t constantly trying to, what I like to call, spit game to them.

So basically,  like I said early on, what attracts a girl to a guy just really depend on the girl herself. Different girls, different attractions.

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