Comments on: Should you date your friend's ex lover? http://thethingswetalkabout.com/2009/02/25/date-friends/#utm_source=feed&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=feed Sat, 12 May 2012 19:28:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Harrison http://thethingswetalkabout.com/2009/02/25/date-friends/comment-page-1/#comment-535 Harrison Fri, 11 Feb 2011 22:25:12 +0000 http://thethingswetalkabout.com/?p=127#comment-535 If it was a flash in the pan sort of thing and by this I mean 3-6 months then you would be required to ask your friend how they feel about such a thing. Moving in on someone's ex wife or husband however is a very different thing, this is akin to treason and a flagrant violation of the code and should not be done at all. I have been with my wife for 10 years and if we were to divorce and my best friend tried it on with her he could rightly expect to be receiving his balls the mail in his immediate future. If it was a flash in the pan sort of thing and by this I mean 3-6 months then you would be required to ask your friend how they feel about such a thing. Moving in on someone’s ex wife or husband however is a very different thing, this is akin to treason and a flagrant violation of the code and should not be done at all. I have been with my wife for 10 years and if we were to divorce and my best friend tried it on with her he could rightly expect to be receiving his balls the mail in his immediate future.

]]> By: lynn http://thethingswetalkabout.com/2009/02/25/date-friends/comment-page-1/#comment-45 lynn Thu, 05 Mar 2009 07:16:59 +0000 http://thethingswetalkabout.com/?p=127#comment-45 i don't think its right, but if my ex finds his self lusting over my girlfriend i'll tell him to go for it, cause look on the bright side that person just may be his soul mate so why hate... i don’t think its right, but if my ex finds his self lusting over my girlfriend i’ll tell him to go for it, cause look on the bright side that person just may be his soul mate so why hate…

]]> By: Beauty http://thethingswetalkabout.com/2009/02/25/date-friends/comment-page-1/#comment-44 Beauty Mon, 02 Mar 2009 23:17:11 +0000 http://thethingswetalkabout.com/?p=127#comment-44 I always said that i wouldn't date my friends ex. But maybe the both of us was ment to be with each other. If the both of you really and truly like each other then I say go for it. I always said that i wouldn’t date my friends ex. But maybe the both of us was ment to be with each other. If the both of you really and truly like each other then I say go for it.

]]> By: elisapoo http://thethingswetalkabout.com/2009/02/25/date-friends/comment-page-1/#comment-43 elisapoo Fri, 27 Feb 2009 13:03:07 +0000 http://thethingswetalkabout.com/?p=127#comment-43 I have to agree Vava2sexy, everyone is definitely free to choose who they want to be with it, and if two people break up then they should definitely move on and it shouldn't really matter who they move on with as long as they are happy (if you even care). Nonetheless, were all on a search to find that special someone so even if it was your friend's ex, like the cliche says, one's trash could be another one's treasure. I have to agree Vava2sexy, everyone is definitely free to choose who they want to be with it, and if two people break up then they should definitely move on and it shouldn’t really matter who they move on with as long as they are happy (if you even care). Nonetheless, were all on a search to find that special someone so even if it was your friend’s ex, like the cliche says, one’s trash could be another one’s treasure.

]]> By: Vava2sexy http://thethingswetalkabout.com/2009/02/25/date-friends/comment-page-1/#comment-42 Vava2sexy Fri, 27 Feb 2009 05:20:59 +0000 http://thethingswetalkabout.com/?p=127#comment-42 Well I think it doesn't matter. Yes your best firend dated him/her but he or she is not a trademark. The person gave up the right this right when he/she left him....soooo I say what the hell. Well I think it doesn’t matter. Yes your best firend dated him/her but he or she is not a trademark. The person gave up the right this right when he/she left him….soooo I say what the hell.

]]> By: DrG1 http://thethingswetalkabout.com/2009/02/25/date-friends/comment-page-1/#comment-41 DrG1 Wed, 25 Feb 2009 15:35:27 +0000 http://thethingswetalkabout.com/?p=127#comment-41 Well I think the answer to this question will differ from one situation to the the next. Let's say that my best friend went out with this girl and for some reason they broke up yet I like her and she likes me, are we supposed to act as if theses feelings don't exist? But in your friends case he/she is a loser looking for a foundation. But the y do have a point. If you are no longer with someone it shouldn't matter who goes out with them. Well I think the answer to this question will differ from one situation to the the next. Let’s say that my best friend went out with this girl and for some reason they broke up yet I like her and she likes me, are we supposed to act as if theses feelings don’t exist?

But in your friends case he/she is a loser looking for a foundation. But the y do have a point. If you are no longer with someone it shouldn’t matter who goes out with them.

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